SECTION 3: HOW TO GET ALONG
IN THE PARK
READ AND OBEY THE POSTED RULES OF THE PARK. ‘Nuff said.
FIRST AND FOREMOST,
THIS IS A PARK FOR DOGS. The
dogs are there to run around, jump on the tables and play in the
water and with each other. If
you do not like this, or if you have a problem with dogs being around
you or your dogs, you should rethink your usage of the park. You might consider coming at a different time, for example, when
there are fewer dogs in the park.
PAY ATTENTION AND KNOW
WHERE YOUR DOG IS AND WHAT IT IS DOING AT ALL TIMES.
Don’t come into the park and get on the phone and walk away
from your dog, or sit and read, or join a group and talk, and then
ignore your dog.
DON’T LET YOUR DOG CROWD THE ENTRANCE
GATE. This presents a potentially volatile situation
where the incoming dog feels crowded, and a fight could ensue. Give people and dogs coming into the park room.
DON’T OPEN BOTH GATES
AT THE SAME TIME. The dogs that crowd the gate, and the dogs
that can run fast, will get out.
It is your responsibility to help retrieve any dogs that
have gotten out because you opened both gates.
DON’T HELP ANOTHER PERSON
OUT BY HOLDING THE GATES OPEN.
I’ve seen many children (and adults for that matter)
try to help by opening the gates whenever someone came by.
While this is a very nice gesture on their part, it causes
problems because any dog close to the gate will get out.
IF YOUR DOG GROWLS AT THE OTHER
DOGS WHILE IN THE ENTRANCE ENCLOSURE, it is because the dog
is trying to tell you that it is uncomfortable with the situation.
If there are no dogs in the small dog park, take your dog
through it to the North end of the park where there are usually
fewer dogs. If this is not an option, try to get the owners of the other dogs
to remove them from the entrance area so that you can enter.
REMOVE YOUR DOGS FROM THE LEASH
WHILE YOU ARE IN THE ENTRANCE ENCLOSURE. When your dog is on the leash, it is protective
of you. This could cause
an altercation when you enter the park proper.
WALK YOUR DOG
AROUND THE PARK before you allow it to play, if your dog is
snappy when it first comes in. There are some otherwise perfectly wonderful dogs who, when they
first come into the park, show their teeth and snap at the other
dogs. This is often done to either establish that
this dog is the dominant dog of the group, or to show possession
of the owner. This can cause problems, especially since the
last time this happened, my hand was very close to the snapping
jaws. After about 10 minutes the dog settled into
the routine and wasn’t a problem.
(As a side note, this kind of behavior needs to be stopped,
because it can escalate into an even bigger problem in the future.)
DO NOT BRING ANY FOOD INTO THE
PARK, unless you are willing to share with the dogs.
DO NOT GIVE TODDLERS FOOD WHILE
IN THE PARK, unless you want the dogs to take the food out of
the child’s hand. Dogs aren’t known for their manners.
DO NOT PLACE BABY CARRIERS ON
THE GROUND. Anything
on the ground becomes a plaything for the dogs, and dogs do not
recognize that a baby is not a toy.
NEVER LEAVE YOUNG CHILDREN UNATTENDED. Most dogs recognize children as pack members,
and will want to play with them.
DON’T GET MAD AT THE DOGS FOR TAKING
YOUR FOOD, if you do bring food into the park.
DON’T BRING ANY SPECIAL TOYS TO
THE PARK, unless you are willing to have the other dogs play
with them. Also, if your dog is possessive of its toys, don’t bring them into
the park.
DON’T GET MAD AT THE OTHER DOGS
FOR PLAYING WITH THE SPECIAL TOYS you brought in, or for destroying
the special toys you brought in.
DON’T PLAY GAMES IN THE PARK
THAT DO NOT INCLUDE THE DOGS.
Many times I’ve seen kids playing ball in the park and then
get upset when the dogs steal the ball. This is the dog’s park, and any game played
in it will include the dogs.
NEVER HIT, OR HIT AT, OR KICK,
OR KICK AT, A DOG JUST BECAUSE IT IS AROUND YOUR CHILD OR YOUR DOG
OR YOU. Remember, this is the DOG’s park. If you don’t like a dog being around you or
your children or your dogs, leave.
Anyone who kicks or hits a dog will be asked to leave the
park.
DON’T GET MAD AT THE DOGS FOR CHASING
YOU, if you do run or jog in the park.
RUDE BEHAVIOR IS NOT GOOD BEHAVIOR,
for either people or dogs. “Rude”
dogs are often not perceived as “rude” by their owners.
Rude dogs often cause dust ups, and worse. The other dog often gets blamed for reacting to a rude dog. Think of it this way, you don’t like people
to be rude to you, and when someone is rude, you get upset. Dogs react the same way. Many times the dogs can sort it out themselves,
but be aware of what constitutes rude behavior in a dog.
DON’T LET YOUR DOG CHARGE
THE FENCE WHEN THERE IS SOMEONE ON THE OTHER SIDE OF IT.
Many people like to stand near the fence and watch the
dogs. Sometimes the dogs
are attracted to something on the other side of the fence, like
a group playing soccer, and they will try to join in the game. (My dog seems to think that the cars going
by on the street contain cats, or maybe are cats.) Keep your dog calm in these situations so that the people on the
other side of the fence don’t get the impression that your dog is
vicious and you, the owner, are a fool.
BE CONSIDERATE. People
who are sitting by themselves don’t wish to socialize, but want
their dogs to have some time to be off leash.
Give these people their space.
If there is someone in the park you don’t like, stay away
from the owner and the dog. If
there is a dog in the park you don’t like, keep your dog away from
them.
“IT’S WHAT DOGS DO” is NOT
a responsible or acceptable excuse for a dog’s behavior, if that
behavior is irritating another person.
“YOU CAN’T OVERCOME A DOG’S NATURE”
is another excuse I’ve been hearing a lot to explain why an
owner can’t control a dog. This is not true. You can overcome a dog’s nature, with the proper training. Your dog has to be responsive to you
while you are in the dog park.
IF YOU CANNOT CONTROL
YOUR DOG, OR IF YOU ARE AFRAID OF YOUR OWN DOG, DON’T COME INTO
THE PARK. I had one
guy come up to me while I was dragging his dog away from my dog
who said that his dog didn’t like to be messed with.
He was actually afraid of his own dog.
This dog consistently caused trouble, and it was the owners
of the other dogs who had to control it.
DOMINANCE MOUNTING could lead
to aggressive behavior if it is not curtailed.
It is also not funny to most people in the park, so if your
dog is mounting another dog, and the owner of the other dog doesn’t
like it, make your dog stop.
IF YOU DO NOT LIKE THE WAY A DOG
IS PLAYING WITH YOUR DOG, separate your dog, and take it to
the other end of the park. Don’t
expect the other owner to remove his dog from what is considered
normal play for that dog. It
is very likely that your dog will go back and resume playing with
the same dog. At this point you can separate the dogs again,
or you can allow the dogs to play, and monitor the play with the
other owner.
LEARN HOW TO READ YOUR DOG’S BODY
LANGUAGE. Dogs cannot tell you what they are feeling.
Some dogs express their emotions with their tails, others
with their ears. Some dogs make a high pitched squeal that shatters glass. Make sure you know when your dog has had enough,
or is frightened, or is angry.
If the tail or ears are up and relaxed, then the dog is friendly
and playful. If the tail
and ears are up and tense, and the dog gives the appearance of standing
on its toes, the dog is in the dominance aggressive stance, and
needs to be removed from the situation immediately.
If the tail or ears are down, then the dog is frightened. If the tail is halfway up, or is all the way up but not wagging
normally, the dog is angry and needs to be removed from the situation
immediately. If the teeth
come out, stop whatever the dog is doing immediately, and calm it
down. If your dog starts squealing or barking or
screaming, remove it from the situation immediately.
DO NOT PICK A DOG UP IN THE PARK, unless you want the other
dogs to jump all over you trying to get to the dog in your arms. Exposing the belly to another dog is a sign of submission, often
seen when a shy dog rolls on its back when another dog comes around. Having the dog in your arms sends a signal
to the other dogs that this is a weak animal.
The dog in your arms could respond by biting you. (Yes, it’s been known to happen. Ask the guy who got his ear pierced for free.)
DOGS ARE SENSITIVE TO YOUR FEELINGS. Try to keep calm under all circumstances.
If you are nervous or afraid, your dog and the dogs around
could pick up the vibes and react.
REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE
NOT YOUR DOG. Your dog might like some things that make you
feel uncomfortable, like wrestling.
Let your dog tell you what it likes and doesn’t like, and
let it be a dog.
RECOGNIZE YOUR
DOG’S LIMITATIONS. If
your dog doesn’t want to socialize, don’t force it.
Some dogs like being off leash, but would just as soon be
off leash ALONE. My dog
loves being allowed to run loose, but she really doesn’t want to
be around strangers. Bringing her to the dog park has improved her
“skills” around people to the point that, instead of snarling or
growling at people, she’ll just not look at them and walk away.
I can take her into crowds now, and have confidence that
she won’t bite hands that may come close to her.
The most important thing about the dog park is getting your
dog used to being around people and other dogs so that it isn’t
a nuisance.
ASK SOMEONE.
If you have concerns about the way your dog, or another dog
is behaving, address these concerns with someone who is familiar
with dog behavior. Check
with your vet, or online at some of the training sites, or talk
with a park official. Don’t
wait until a behavior escalates into fighting with another dog,
or until another dog owner gets angry.
BE COURTEOUS.
Rudeness just aggravates things.
BE RESPONSIBLE.
Pick up after your dog.
If your dog injures another dog, either through play or through
a fight, or if your dog destroys an article belonging to another
person, don’t walk away. Offer to pay for all or part of it.
DO NOT BRING ANY FEMALES IN HEAT
INTO THE PARK. There is about 4-week period where the odor
associated with being in season drives other dogs nuts. The odor remains for weeks after your dog has
been there, and the result is the number of fights increases. Check with you vet to make sure the dog is
out of season before you return.
YOU MUST BE THE ALPHA DOG, at
least as far as your dog is concerned. It will look to you for protection as well
as for what is considered acceptable.
If you are not the Alpha, then your dog will not behave while
it is in the park, and you will not be able to control it. One way to establish that you are the Alpha is to do the Alpha stare
– grab your dog’s head on either side and stare into its eyes.
DO NOT LOOK AWAY. The
dog should look away within 2 seconds.
If it doesn’t, it does not recognize you as the Alpha.
DON’T GET ANGRY AT YOUR DOG
if it doesn’t understand what you want.
Anger directed at the dog makes the dog afraid, and a fearful
dog can be a dangerous dog.
DO NOT DISCIPLINE YOUR DOG AFTER
THE FACT. I watched
a person discipline a dog that was sitting next to him. Five minutes before, the dog had done something
the owner didn’t like. Since
he waited, the dog thought he was being punished for sitting next
to the owner, so it ran away. After
that, whenever the owner called the dog, the dog ran away, and the
owner got angry. You have approximately 20 seconds to discipline
the dog. After that, they
associate the discipline with whatever they are doing at the time.
DON’T USE PHYSICAL PUNISHMENT
FOR INAPPROPRIATE BEHAVIOR. There was a dog that was annoying my dog by
trying to mount her. My
dog kept moving away, but the other dog wouldn’t give up.
The owner started to hit the dog on the rear with a hard
plastic toy, and that startled the other dog into a fight with my
dog. Hitting a dog doesn’t correct the behavior,
it just makes the dog mean or frightened and makes the situation
worse.
DO NOT TEASE ANY DOG. Do not allow your children to tease any dog.
This aggravates the dog and the owner, and you WILL be asked
to leave the park.
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